Adds room_invites table + migration, owner/admin/member role enforcement
(require_room_role), and endpoints for private room creation, room
management (update/delete/leave/transfer-ownership/change-role/remove-member),
and the invite lifecycle (create/list/accept/decline/revoke). Registration
stays invite-only via the CLI from Phase 1 — this is a separate, room-level
invite system for adding existing users to private rooms.
Frontend is untouched: the UI redesign is happening separately, so this phase
is backend + tests only (35 passing). Verified no regressions in the Phase 1
open-room/WebSocket flow via manual smoke test.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
