Lets a member subscribe to email when they're @mentioned in a room
while offline, alongside #66's always-on DM email. Debounced the same
way #66 is (one email per unread burst, not one per mention), and
deliberately scoped to regular rooms only -- DMs already have #66's
automatic offline email with no separate toggle needed.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
