Add UI themes (Dark, Light, Midnight, Sunset)

Four preset color themes, switchable from Profile settings with instant
preview and server-side persistence (User.theme, applied via a data-theme
attribute the CSS custom-property overrides in themes.css key off). Dark
stays the existing DarkSingularity palette and default. Light is a genuine
new light-mode design; Midnight is a higher-contrast OLED-friendly dark
variant; Sunset swaps in a warm amber/coral accent family.

Custom theme building (pick-your-own-colors) is out of scope for this
pass -- presets only.

Also: fixed the PATCH /api/auth/me handler to only apply fields actually
present in the request body. It previously always overwrote display_name
unconditionally, which happened to be harmless when it was the only
field on ProfileUpdate but would have silently cleared it on any
theme-only update. And switched two hardcoded hex colors
(.btn-primary:hover, .role-badge-admin) to token-derived color-mix()
values so they adapt across themes instead of staying fixed to the
original cyan/violet palette.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

backend/alembic/versions/e849b2efb79b_user_theme_preference.py

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+"""user theme preference
+
+Revision ID: e849b2efb79b
+Revises: 880f080648de
+Create Date: 2026-08-15 21:53:44.914731
+
+"""
+from typing import Sequence, Union
+
+from alembic import op
+import sqlalchemy as sa
+
+
+# revision identifiers, used by Alembic.
+revision: str = 'e849b2efb79b'
+down_revision: Union[str, Sequence[str], None] = '880f080648de'
+branch_labels: Union[str, Sequence[str], None] = None
+depends_on: Union[str, Sequence[str], None] = None
+
+
+def upgrade() -> None:
+    """Upgrade schema."""
+    # ### commands auto generated by Alembic - please adjust! ###
+    op.add_column('users', sa.Column('theme', sa.String(length=20), nullable=True))
+    # ### end Alembic commands ###
+
+
+def downgrade() -> None:
+    """Downgrade schema."""
+    # ### commands auto generated by Alembic - please adjust! ###
+    op.drop_column('users', 'theme')
+    # ### end Alembic commands ###