Show the date on message timestamps that aren't from today

A bare "4:04 PM" gave no way to tell today's message from one sent last
week. Today stays time-only; older messages gain just enough date to
place them: "Yesterday 4:04 PM", a weekday for the past week ("Mon
4:04 PM"), then "Oct 2, 4:04 PM" (with the year if it isn't this one).
Hovering a time shows the full date. All in the viewer's local time.

A new calendar day now always starts a new message group. Previously a
same-sender run that crossed midnight within the 5-minute window (11:58
PM then 12:01 AM) stayed under one header, which would have put the
later message under the wrong day's timestamp. The grouping rule moves
out of MessageList into messageGrouping.ts so it's unit-tested.

useLocalDay refreshes "today" at local midnight and when a hidden tab
becomes visible again, so a tab left open overnight doesn't keep showing
yesterday's messages as a bare time. .message-time no longer wraps, and
.message-author can shrink, so a long display name can't push the longer
label out of the row on a phone.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

frontend/src/components/MessageList.css

@@ -40,12 +40,17 @@
 }
 
 .message-author {
+  /* Lets a very long display name shrink/wrap instead of pushing the
+     (now longer, e.g. "Yesterday 4:04 PM") timestamp out of the row. */
+  min-width: 0;
   font-size: 0.86rem;
   font-weight: 700;
   color: var(--ds-text);
 }
 
 .message-time {
+  flex: none;
+  white-space: nowrap;
   font-size: 0.68rem;
   color: var(--ds-muted);
   font-family: var(--mono);